Comments on: 31 DBBSD – Day #1: Pay Your Child Support On Time http://solo-dad.com/31-dbbsd-day-1-pay-your-child-support-on-time Fri, 12 Mar 2010 08:47:15 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: UnDeadBeatDad http://solo-dad.com/31-dbbsd-day-1-pay-your-child-support-on-time#comment-97 UnDeadBeatDad Sun, 23 Aug 2009 20:11:47 +0000 http://solo-dad.com/?p=583#comment-97 The change in mindset and way that we view our support payments is a great point. Too many single dads get hung up on giving our former significant others money and fail to realize that we only end up hurting our kids. Since child care payments must he made, our understanding of who it really benefits and our outlook and approach to making payments being positive is crucial. This is a major topic of concern and you have done a fantastic job of breaking it down and keeping it simple and effective. Great post. The change in mindset and way that we view our support payments is a great point. Too many single dads get hung up on giving our former significant others money and fail to realize that we only end up hurting our kids. Since child care payments must he made, our understanding of who it really benefits and our outlook and approach to making payments being positive is crucial.
This is a major topic of concern and you have done a fantastic job of breaking it down and keeping it simple and effective.
Great post.

]]> By: soon2bsolo http://solo-dad.com/31-dbbsd-day-1-pay-your-child-support-on-time#comment-95 soon2bsolo Sun, 23 Aug 2009 08:03:49 +0000 http://solo-dad.com/?p=583#comment-95 I am a little confused. I am new to all this and may not understand, but I thought this was for dads raising kids by themselvess. Why would I be paying child support? I am a little confused. I am new to all this and may not understand, but I thought this was for dads raising kids by themselvess. Why would I be paying child support?

]]> By: Solo-Dad http://solo-dad.com/31-dbbsd-day-1-pay-your-child-support-on-time#comment-82 Solo-Dad Sun, 02 Aug 2009 15:52:22 +0000 http://solo-dad.com/?p=583#comment-82 You're right about the 'where does my money really go?' factor. Still, when we look at the larger picture, when our kids are 18, 25, and older they will understand that those many years we did the right thing and we did it for them. That wins in my book. :) You’re right about the ‘where does my money really go?’ factor. Still, when we look at the larger picture, when our kids are 18, 25, and older they will understand that those many years we did the right thing and we did it for them. That wins in my book. :)

]]> By: Solo-Dad http://solo-dad.com/31-dbbsd-day-1-pay-your-child-support-on-time#comment-80 Solo-Dad Sun, 02 Aug 2009 04:26:59 +0000 http://solo-dad.com/?p=583#comment-80 Talibah - Welcome to Solo-Dad - I'm glad you stopped by. :) Over the next two months all 31 posts in the 31DBBSD series will be published. Stay tuned! Talibah – Welcome to Solo-Dad – I’m glad you stopped by. :) Over the next two months all 31 posts in the 31DBBSD series will be published. Stay tuned!

]]> By: Talibah http://solo-dad.com/31-dbbsd-day-1-pay-your-child-support-on-time#comment-78 Talibah Sat, 01 Aug 2009 18:29:51 +0000 http://solo-dad.com/?p=583#comment-78 My first time here. I absolutely love this series. Great advice! My first time here. I absolutely love this series. Great advice!

]]> By: Barry http://solo-dad.com/31-dbbsd-day-1-pay-your-child-support-on-time#comment-75 Barry Sat, 01 Aug 2009 12:47:01 +0000 http://solo-dad.com/?p=583#comment-75 This is a great idea! Will be a great resource. Hardest part for child support is the lack of accountability. No way of knowing how the money is spent and when you see an ex going on vacation with her new boyfriend,(as a friend of mine shared) the anger build because you feel you paid for it. Bottom line, doesn't matter. The system is the way the system is. Solo Dad is 100% correct. Pay your support, Pay it on time. Just do it! This is a great idea! Will be a great resource.

Hardest part for child support is the lack of accountability. No way of knowing how the money is spent and when you see an ex going on vacation with her new boyfriend,(as a friend of mine shared) the anger build because you feel you paid for it.

Bottom line, doesn’t matter. The system is the way the system is. Solo Dad is 100% correct. Pay your support, Pay it on time. Just do it!

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