Single dads look for love.

But finding it isn’t always easy.

It’s been said that the harder you look for something, the more difficult it is to find.  I believe that. Looking for love is often just this way.

We scurry from bar to bar, club to club, date to date and always wonder why we’re not finding the right person.

Single dads with half to full custody of their kids find it even more challenging.

Balancing time with children, work responsibilities, and time dedicated to personal improvement (physical and spiritual), and any responsibilities we might have to aging parents – like I said, it’s not always easy.

Sometimes Love Is Like an Apple

As Newton discovered, sometimes unexpected things drop into your life through unexpected mechanisms.  So it is with love at times.

I’ve been quiet for a while as you may have noticed.  I’ve been busy with a reorganization at my employer and adapting to the changing bosses and philosophies that accompany them.

Another reason for my silence is a budding relationship (that I’m not going to talk about in any detail). Let’s just say that it’s been a very long time since my heart was hooked like this.

Like Newton’s famed apple that dropped in front of him igniting his groundbreaking work on gravity, love has dropped into my life igniting a world of possibilities for me.

It’s wonderful to be in that state where you feel the world is your oyster and 16 wasn’t that long ago. 

I decided a long time ago not to blog about current relationships and I’m not going to now.  But I did feel that sharing  my Newtonian moment was in order.  Without the ability to foretell the future, I don’t know where it may lead.

But for now, it’s very cool, you know?  8-)  Happy New Year!

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